Oh my god people. I would be able to move and be fine if I didn't have to put up with the fucking city bastards.
We found out from the city that we have to move the electrical box. Okay the box is at the back of our lot. They want all the boxes moved to the front of the lot. No problem I would call them and let them move it. It is our responsibility to dig the trenches from the old box to the front of the lot, then again from the front of the lot to the back of the house. So...we have to dig trenches, then it is our responsability to buy all the conduit that needs layed down...um okay. But if you want it moved shouldn't you be buying it?? Then we have to pay for a new box. What the fuck?? you want it done you pay for it ass holes. Then we have to pay a re hook up fee. I NEVER WANTED IT TURNED OFF IN THE FIRST PLACE YOU ARE THE ASS HATS THAT HAVE TO TURN IT OFF TO MOVE IT!!! Total cost, just over 1000 dollars, that's if we dig our own trenches.
I about died. I wanted to shoot someone in the face. I mean I had budgeted in about 2500 for the move. That was to cover cinder blocks, wood, some skirting, fencing (in the front) hook up fee's and permits to move it in. I budgeted that much, no more. All my credit cards are maxed. We are already up to about 2800 in costs, and now I need to do this. And we can't move in until it's done.
And we were just informed that in less than a year the electric company has plans to dig up the streets and re lay all new lines, so all that shit we will buy and have put in will be null and void. IN LESS THAN A MOTHER FUCKING YEAR!!!!!!
Gigantor has been talking to the guy, and he is going to talk to his supervisor. Seeing as we have never interrupted service, that it's been turned on all this time, and we even dug the trench from the old box to where the trailer would be. If we can just hook it up, and we go ahead and purchase the new box (not the new one but the new one we would have to purchase again in less than a year) If we purchase that and any conduit and have it all ready for them. The guy said it sounded good and he would try to work with us but he has to check with his boss.
I don't see as they will let us get away with it. It would be nice though.
Guess now is not the time to bring up about the cable to Gigantor.
I called the cable company cuz I really really don't wanna go 3 weeks without internet and my shows. What would I do without ghost hunters and my CSI's and survivor? ahhhhhhhh So I asked the cable company if we could hook up service at the house we would be staying at, then in three weeks do it up at our new lot. They said yes, but it's 60 dollars each and every time we switch it. Have to pay it up front.
Okay my mother in law didn't show up to help like she said she would, I have been making phone calls and hanging gobs of laundry. I have all the "low" stuff packed (cept dishes, doing those close to last) I have to wait for Gigantor to get home and reach the high stuff. I asked him to put some down on the love seat for me this morning, but he didn't. grrrrr That's okay I've had lots of other work to keep me busy, plus reading blogs.
Okay, last note then I'm going. Kiddo has pulled something in his lower back/hip area. I tried to get him into our chiropractor but they wouldn't return my call, now they are gone till Monday. It's been getting worse, he could barely move last night, and he already called me once from school near tears. I told him to talk to each teacher see if he can just sorta sit and not do anything, and we would get some more icy hot on it and some ibuprophen in him when he got home.
Keep him in your good wishes please people. 11 year olds should not have to hurt like that.
Also, pray to the anti city officials gods and see if we can get something worked out smoothly with the dam electric thing.
Have a good Friday everyone!!!!
Friday, April 25, 2008
Screw you and the horse you rode in on you effing city bastards!!!!
Posted by Burfica at 11:55 AM 12 comments
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
On a Run away Freight Train

Holy moly folks. We are on a run away freight train that isn't gonna stop now.
We got talking last night. We have about 2 to 3 weeks worth of work to do here at our house, and a good week worth of work to do up at the other lot. That would be not counting building the fences on both sides.
Well....Gigantor has to go out of town on the 10th. It's manditory, for work. We found out some of the stuff we need to get done with the city and utilities would take a good three weeks after we move our trailer in. We have to be out of our friends house by May 30th. That's when they come back.
So...we discussed how if it was at all possible we could move it up not this weekend but the next May 3rd.
So...we thought...lets see what people say. Guy out at Gigantors work that has set them up before said that's best weekend for him. Guy that said he would move it for free, says that's the only time he has actually.
Okay people I have to cram 3 weeks of stuff into a week and two days. I'm excited as hell, but also a bit nervous. We have called what family and friends we have so far. Guess who is helping?? My mother in law for one day. Nobody else seems to want or feel that we need the help. grrrrr
I think once I'm done posting I'm gonna go and put a prayer request down on our church's prayer chain and see if anyone can help.
Okay on that note, I'm gonna go get some sleep. Gigantor and I totally cleaned out and cleaned the back bathroom. Got three boxes packed of breakables. Kept the stuff we need to go with us to the other house out. I hate having to pack to move and then pack us bags and boxes to go stay somewhere for a few weeks.
Okay off to make that e-mail and to go to bed for me.
Hope you all have a great Thursday.
Posted by Burfica at 10:40 PM 12 comments
Tuesday, April 22, 2008
All I want to do is sleep
Loveeeeeeeeeeee this picture!!!!
Man all I want to do today is go back to bed and sleep. And honestly I would, But no matter how much I told captain daddy that I wanted to sleep he still insists on coming over today. Claims that he has no laundry. grrrrrr
Yesterday was my anniversary. 15 years married to Gigantor. He woke up and kissed me goodbye. Didn't tell me Happy Anniversary. This is a sore subject with me, because for about 4 or 5 years, he's blown off our anniversary. Then gets mad when I get upset. I told him last year if he did it again, he would be sleeping in the other room, cuz I will NOT BE TREATED THAT WAY!!!!! All morning with all the phone calls he didn't say a thing.
He said he was planning a sorta surprise and doing something nice after work, that's why he never mentioned it. I don't believe him. I think it was that a friend of ours called him and yelled at him that I was upset. The dumb ass. He did bring me a card and some flowers.
15 years I get a card and flowers. *sigh* Honestly it's not that bad. I would be perfectly happy with just a "happy anniversary honey" and a card. But it's always like it's an afterthought. He never buy's anything till long after I've been ticked off.
His anniversary gift. Well he claims he can't move any more stuff on that lot without a wheel barrow and he broke the handle on our wood handled one, so he wants to go buy a new one. Ummm nope I have a very old steel handled wheelbarrow, and he is getting a 10 dollar wheel for it. That's his gift.
Don't mess with me about holidays people. He should know that after 15 years.
On another note. Talked to the principal about what happened. He was way way not happy. He is starting a full blown investigation. He's even gonna get with the detective we talked to about the "bully coach" and get together with him. He said he wants to talk to kiddo. Not about what happened, but about how he felt when it all happened and after. Then he is doing an investigation, gonna call us everyday after what ever he found out.
He said if he finds out wrong doing (he knows there is, just has to word it like that) that he would put the reprimand or whatever was done in both of their files. That's what we asked to be done. And he is going to find out about the guy taking money out of Kiddo's wallet. Without parents or police or without asking him. And if it's illegal on school grounds then we are pressing charges.
So...keep us in your thoughts and stuff, that it all works out the way it's supposed too. And that no repercussions come down on Kiddo, cuz let me tell ya if they do, there just might be murder in my future.
Okay I'm off to eat some corn pops seeing as I don't have any popcorn. grrrrrrr
Have a good Tuesday everyone!!!!
Posted by Burfica at 8:17 AM 11 comments
Sunday, April 20, 2008
Horribly Sad and Amazingly Happy
Wanna know how you can be Horribly Sad and Amazingly Happy at the same time??
You can head up to your lot to tear down your mothers house so you can move ours in soon. And the people that were gonna take it are there. Have been for two days, digging it out, getting axles on it, jacking it up. And you are there for about a half hour as they move it out and drive down the street with it.
It was the house I grew up in. Yes it was a trailer, but it was home. We had an apricot tree, apple tree (both dead) rose bushes, (tried to dig them up and save them) cherry tree (long dead) bouncing betties and mums (covered under tons of sand so no telling if they will come back, and a lilac bush (still there)
It housed most of my memories, good and bad, and every memory of my mom. Tons of memories of my son playing up there too.
Now this fenced in, full of flowers and trees and toys lot, looks like this.
Looks pretty bad right now huh??
No grass, no tree's, nothing happy looking about it. But I'm also so very happy. Because this means, I'm that much closer to moving my place up there, to fencing it back in and planting some fruit tree's of my own. To watching my son grow up there like my mother watched us. To plant grass, and watch the dogs run.
Gigantor went up today and stacked all those cinder blocks you see everywhere, he stacked them all over to the side. We actually found an old septic tank under there (the city hasn't used septic tanks in 40 years) We found tons of poles and posts, some cut off, but all with concrete in the ground, he dug those out. (some under the trailer) We took out tons of old roots that were under the trailer and as big as your leg.
This week we are calling all the utilities and have them stake out their lines so we know where we can and can't dig. We are also tearing down that old rusty shed and moving the nice shiny one back in that corner. He is going to be putting up new wood fences on both sides. And when our trailer is in there, some nice swinging chain link fences in the front off of each side.
We did find some interesting stuff under the trailer. Old dog toys. Monster spiders. A very old "bubble up" soda can. Does anyone remember bubble up??? A old Shasta Draft Root Beer can, the old steel one's. hehehee Was sorta fun. In all the hustle the kids of the people moving it broke one of my yard tables. It was round with a glass top. Guess that is a small price to pay for how many people they had there.
Only thing that sorta bugged me. We gave them the trailer for free. FREE PEOPLE!!! And not one of them came over and said thank you. Just drove off after they got it out of the lot.
Maybe the Navajo culture doesn't know how to say thank you. I dunno. But hey it's gone, and we are that much closer. We have exactly 5 weeks to be moved, inspected, set up, utilities on, fences and porches up, and moved in. We are on a deadline now people.
Hope you all had a good weekend!!!!
Wish me luck calling and setting up meetings with principal and superintendent tomorrow to put in formal complaints.
Posted by Burfica at 9:25 PM 16 comments
Friday, April 18, 2008
Lucky we aren't in Jail
Okay people let me say right up front I'm not gonna post the whole story on here, because it's way long. But anyone who wants to know the entire thing, e-mail me and I'll e-mail you back with all the juicy details.
You all know my kid can be a bonehead. But as most of you know reading here. He has been bullied since kindergarten. It's a constant battle with schools, and keeping his self esteem up with counselors and good teachers. Most of you know he's a very kind soul that wouldn't hurt anyone. And that he will be anyone's friend. All the adults he's ever met have said that and how well mannered he is.
Well let me give a quick recap of yesterday, and part of today.
Son comes out of school crying and with an ISS report (in school suspension)
He is accused of bullying and extortion. (what the mother fuckity fuck)
It also states that he repeatedly lied to the vice principal about the situation, and that it is not the first time he's been in trouble for being a bully. (WHAT?? FIRST I'VE HEARD OF IT)
So...call husband tell him to get his ass up to the school right away. (my knees are so bad I couldn't even walk in there, pisses me the hell off they are this bad)
Husband comes up, calm Kiddo down, and talk to him more.
Apparently a little shit named Eddie Sink (yes real names and I don't give a fuck) who has lied about kiddo in the past. 5 times to be exact. (he has some mental problems for real, and they are documented) This kid told people that Kiddo took 5 bucks from him so kiddo wouldn't kick his ass.
My son got accused of extortion, he got yelled at and intimidated by the vice principal and the bully coach at school. They went into his wallet and removed money. They continually called him a liar until he told them what they wanted to hear.
We went to the superintendant, we went to the police, we had calls in everywhere.
Incident report made with the police.
Vice principal called wanting to know how to make us "feel better" about the situation. Gigantor getting very angry at her, her being pissed, Gigantor saying, "I will be there 7:30 tomorrow morning you better be"
Kiddo worried, and sick all night long.
Meeting this morning.
Things are fixed, but fuck me running what a mess. Gonna be putting in a formal complaint on her and the bully coach about the way they handled things.
Hope you all had a better Thursday and hope you all have a good Friday!!!
Posted by Burfica at 9:46 AM 24 comments
Wednesday, April 16, 2008
How much trouble can an 11 year old get in before they quit being a dumb ass??

That's the million dollar question. Now much trouble can one be in before they smarten up??? I'm assuming by how he's doing that it can be A TONNNNNNNN MORE!!!!
He has been telling me he doesn't have homework, he got all his work done in class. Well he knows I check his grade on the computer each week. For three weeks I have been asking why he has an F in computer class. He says, he has done all the work, and he's not sure. So...I sent an e-mail to the teacher asking if she just hadn't posted the grades on the assignments online.
Well she called me. Apparently, he's had two assignments that's he had time for two weeks to do in class, and he did NOTHING!!! So...she told him to bring them home and do them with his writing program. They got shoved in his backpack and not mentioned again. Oh hell yeah he was in some major trouble. He worked for 3 hours last night on one, and over an hour tonight on the other. I was spittin mad.
It's been major temper issues with this kid for the past couple months. Stomping, slamming, throwing, clenching fist and teeth and shaking, and growling. (that growling thing is gonna be the death of him, cuz one of us is gonna kill him when he does the loud growl, grunt thing in our face) I know it's a stage, I mean I've been talking with the other mom's. But he may not live through this stage. Or have any possessions left once we are done punishing him all the way. hahahaha
There's been alot more stuff than just the school work here lately too. Lets see, not going to sleep, getting up 15 times or more after he's supposed to be asleep, pushing the dog off his lap in the car cuz he was mad at me, pulling the other dogs hair cuz he was angry. Yeah, I snapped at that. Won't tell you what I did, cuz I might go to jail. hahahahahahaa
Subject change. I'm taking all three dogs to the vet tomorrow. They all need major toenail clippings. We usually do them ourselves, but Buster's veins are right at the end, and I have no stop bleed sticks. Dribbles squirms, and Foxy bites at us when we do hers. So...I said fuck it we are gonna just take them to the vet. Buster needs a check up also. He's been having some problems.
Granted his 13 years old. And he's had both knees replaced in the back. He can barely walk now though, and his left front leg/shoulder is killing him. But he also has started this weird cough thing, and I think he's going blind. And he has been panting....ALOT. So...I want him checked.
Well...I have bored you all enough, I'm gonna go try to get some sleep. Bet you all 10 bucks the kid comes in the minute I turn the lights out. And I bet you 20 bucks, that no matter where you live you will hear me blowing my top. hehehehehe
Have a good Thursday all!!!!
Posted by Burfica at 9:52 PM 19 comments
Tuesday, April 15, 2008
I was tagged and I don't mean spray painted!!!!
Okay I was tagged by Crystalchick over at Mary says....
I guess I was tagged for something by her long time ago, and yeah well I forgot. So...she tagged me again, and I thought I would do this one at least. hehehehe
So here goes.
Six Unimportant Things
here are the rules.
1. Link back to the person who tagged you. (it's up there see)
2. Post these rules on your blog (right here see)
3. Share six unimportant things about yourself (down there see)
4. Tag six people to do this.
Ummm not gonna follow number 4 so much. But if you wall wanna do it, then please do and let me know so I can go read your unimportant stuff. hehehehe
Here we go.
1. I have a big gap in my front two top teeth. Not a gap, but a OMGGGGGG THAT'S HUGE!!! gap. My front two teeth are very large. Unfortunately I gave the teeth and gap to my son, but his sorta jut out a bit. Poor guy.
2. I'm on day two of the 10 days it takes to make Amish Friendship bread. My mother in law showed up with the started yesterday, so we are attempting it. So many dam days of just massaging the bag of starter. I feel like a pervert. hehehehe
3. I get a sick thrill when I have really rank gas. Let me explain. I live in a house of boys. Boys that find farting funny. Farting in any way shape or form. (hubby started this mess) They love to run up beside me, fart and run off giggling. So...when my poor tummy doesn't like something I ate, and I have the RANKEST gas ever. I love to sit in close quarters with them and get revenge. *insert really evil laugh here*
4. I have to have my husband lay "just so" in bed or I can't seem to fall asleep. He always jokes and asks me "if he is comfortable yet" hahahaha But in reality I get my best sleep when he's not in the bed at all. I've debated telling him to sleep in another room, when I get way over tired.
5. I'm a picker. I pick at things. Scabs, crusty eyes, hangnails. I pick them all till they are sore or bleeding. I even pick goobers out of my pets eyes. When my son was a baby I would pick his eyes and even clean his nose obsessively. He hates it when I try to go at his face with my nails. hehehehehe
6. Even though I've told everyone I'm fine with the fact I can't have any more children, and that my life is complete. I'm still very saddened that I could not have any more. (don't tell me adopt, cuz we have looked into it and tried for over 10 years, all the doors seem to shut, so we came to terms that it was never meant to be) And in being saddened I guess I'm still sorta angry at God about it all.
Okay that's it, that's my 6, very unimportant things. hehehehehe
Go...do it...let me know!!
I'm outa here
Have a good Tuesday everyone.
Posted by Burfica at 9:02 AM 16 comments
Monday, April 14, 2008
Starting to get sick of moving.

I am so not a morning person, that would be me in that picture. But then again Kiddo isn't either. hahahahaha
I'm getting so tired of all the moving stuff, I hope it's over soon.
The guy showed up on Friday said he wanted that old trailer, and was going to go find wheels and axles to haul it, and be back on Sat and Sun to get it. Gigantor called him Saturday night after he didn't show up all day. The guy claims (I don't believe him though) that he looked for axles all day and couldn't find any, so isn't sure what to do, but wants us to hold it till next weekend. Gigantor said, well I'm not holding it long. I told Gigantor to call the guy on Wed, and if he hasn't found them to tell him well if you don't call me by Friday saying you are getting it Saturday then I'm starting to tear it down.
We need to get on top of this stuff. We can't be waiting any longer, or we are gonna run out of time.
We did get Captain Daddy's travel trailer moved on Saturday. A co worker came and helped Gigantor, they got it torn down moved and sat back up in about 4 hours. Then we all had some burgers and dogs over here at my house.
We have been visiting this weekend with my sister/friend (she is so close to me she is family, and came up to visit her parents for a few days so I get the bonus of stealing her once in a while) We haven't seen each other for over 2 years (right after mom died) So...I had been missing her big.
Sunday we got up and did some house work here, and I did avon (should have done it on Friday but we were so darn busy) Then went over to Gigantor's parents. She was doing a huge family lunch/dinner at 2. I say huge cuz they had all the family in town there--25 of us. But these stupid ass people can't cook for more than 4 or 6. One sister did bring a potato salad and it was HUGE. But we about polished it off. And then a cousins father in law brough a HUGE pasta salad, that only some of it got ate. (it wasn't very good) Another sister, did deviled eggs, 6 eggs that makes 12 deviled eggs for 25 of us. She did a celery platter with celery with peanut butter and cream cheese. About 3 stalks of celery cut into 3rds.
I just don't understand these people. I mean they grew up in a big family for shit sake. The mother in law made a ham. 1 ham that wasn't very big, we ran out of ham fast. Gigantor yelled at her early that she wouldn't have enough food, so she went and got two 10 piece buckets of chicken, and they had one piece left at the end. She did make baked beans but forgot to pull them out of the microwave till about 20 minutes into the meal. ugggghhhh
We brought desert. Instead of the typical, cake, cookies or brownies. We bought a huge box of ice cream sandwiches and ice cream bars (30 of them) and a big box of 24 popsicles. So...yeah everyone horded around the ice cream like a flash. And it was GONE. But it was like the only thing we had enough of.
Well still keep us in your prayers/thoughts about the guy finding axles and taking that trailer, it would be easier all the way around.
I'm gonna go read some blogs till Captain Daddy gets here. He was being so ornery about moving he didn't call cable or phone company to transfer anything so now he wants me to call them. grrrrr
Have a good Monday everyone!!!!
Posted by Burfica at 8:14 AM 12 comments
Thursday, April 10, 2008
Lookie Lookie my new digs

Whooohoooo everyone check out my new digs!!!!!
I loved the dragon, I collect dragons. But it was soooo dark. I was looking for something a bit lighter so it didn't feel all depressing over here. Plus it's spring, I didn't need dark right now.
I love the cactus just like here in Arizona!!!
That dog in the pic up above has the darndest expression. hahahahah
I didn't have a bunch go on today, except that. Went and got a couple things to make dinner with and went to the Chiropractor. I hope he can make my back feel better and the meds the doc gave me make my knees feel better, then I should be able to walk good again. yayyyyyyyyyyyy
Oh my gosh, as I sit here ready to sign off. Gigantor just got a phone call. We may not have to tear down my mom's old house. A man just called from the reservation (they like to take old trailers out there to use as sheep camps) Well, he wants it. We were gonna give him a week to move it. Cuz we need to get dad out of there first. He wants it this weekend. He will move it and take it and then we don't have to spend 4 weeks tearing it down. Oh my gosh people send good vibes and prayers, we so need this, we need it bad!!!! Everything is falling into place the way it should be, and we really need it to right now. Ohhhhhhhhhhh I'm so giddie I'm gonna flip.
Okay breath, it might fall through, but we will see.
Alright Gigantor is done cooking the bacon for our bacon cheeseburger meatloaf we are making. I need to go help him finish up.
Have a great evening and wonderful Friday everyone!!!!
Posted by Burfica at 5:49 PM 23 comments
Tuesday, April 08, 2008
Better day than yesterday, no sucking of the universe.

hahahahaha I think I've owned that cat. You say all sorts of things that would make your mama blush when your cat does that.
Today was a bit better. I felt a bit rested, and my knees hurt but not as bad as the past 4 days.
I did some paperwork, and then read blogs, I was so dam busy. hehehehehe
I did see an old friend I hadn't seen in a while, when I was at the post office.
We watched Water Horse--Legend of the Deep tonight. It was a great family movie. We all loved it. We all want a water horse now too. hehehehe
We made chicken enchilada soup tonight. It was a bit spicy for me and kiddo but we put some chips and sour cream in it, helped. But I should be burning going to the bathroom tomorrow. It's so good though. I'll leave ya with the recipe.
CHICKEN ENCHILADA SOUP
One whole chicken or we used some chicken cutlets cooked and cut or shred up.
2 cups chicken broth
1 cup water
2 cans Rotelle Tomatos with diced green chili's in them
2 cans cream of mushroom soup
2 cans chedder cheese soup
2 cans nacho cheese soup
1 28oz can of green chili enchilada sauce
Just add it all together and yummmmoooooo.
We put tortilla chips on the bottom of our bowl, you can serve with cheese or sour cream, whatever you like. Hope you enjoy if you try it.
Okay I'm off to bed, getting my hair cut tomorrow morning.
Have a good Wednesday everyone.
Posted by Burfica at 10:14 PM 13 comments
Monday, April 07, 2008
Mondays suck like the suckiest of suck!!!
Do you all get the idea that Mondays suck??? hahahahaha
It's not that it was a real bad day. I was just dead ass tired, and I was hurting so bad from the weekend. I wasn't sure I could get up and get the kid to school. But I did.
Then I had a whole giant bowl of NOTHING go on today. I spent my day, rechecking e-mail to see if anyone loved me, and checking twitter to see if anyone loved me. It was official. Nobody loved me today. hahahahaha
I love that picture. I would love a plug in kitty if it made the house smell good. Not like the cat pee smell one would expect from a plug in kitty. hehehehe
I have a person that has been a friend of mine forever. Some of you will remember how much she helped me when my mom was in the hospital and then getting everything done for her memorial. Well she bit the bullet and is attempting to do a blog. We were walking through some getting started things. She has like a one tiny paragraph post and got a pic up. Pretty good for a start.
I'll see if she keeps blogging if I'm gonna turn all you all maniacs loose on her. hahahahaha
Okay I'm off to bed, I'm so boring, I think I sucked the suckiest suck right out of the universe.
Have a good Tuesday everyone!!!!
Posted by Burfica at 10:45 PM 8 comments
Sunday, April 06, 2008
Another busy weekend
Well I got some pics of my nails I had done on Friday. I know they aren't the best pics. For some reason we cant' get the light right now.
Just real springy looking and I have pink flowers on the blue nails and purple flowers on the pink nails, and a coupld swimming frogs thrown in there for good measure. 
So....get my nails done and I'm almost late getting the kid. Get him and check the mail. We did get captain daddy's stuff turned into the campground for a lot there, and we got the very last lot.
Saturday Gigantor got up and worked on straightening up the living room. I got up and started hanging about 5 loads of laundry worth, then we went to washing. Did about 8 or more loads, cuz we did sheets and towels and all the good stuff.
We then decided we had to run some errands, it was about 2 in the afternoon (oh yeah we went through all the clothes in our closets too, got a big donation pile) So..I'm filling out a list of things we have to do, and one of my fricken finger nails that I just had done, up and pops off. Just pops right off. I call my nail lady and tell her and she tells me to come right up, so I did.
Got a new nail put on. Then went to post office, to drop of a prescription, to ups store, to Bashas to deliver avon and pick up eggs, bacon and fresh green beans. Then went to Gigantor's sisters to deliver avon and pick up a pair of Kiddo's pants they hemmed. Went to sonic got big drinks. Came home to put the cold groceries away. Gigantor walked down to the Kawasaki place to pick up the 4 wheeler (had new tires put on--360 bucks worth) He went and got gas and came home. Then we called captain daddy to ask about taking him to do the deposit on the lot. And he was fuming mad. I guess I had mentioned we should all go to the movie. I mentioned it like on Wed. And captain daddy threw a fit that there was nothing he wanted to see, so I dropped it. Well he was mad that I didn't call and we didn't go to the movie. For fuck sake.
So...I call him back and get a bit mad that he couldn't pick up the dam phone and call, instead he waited around getting madder and madder. So...I told him that, and he of course he changed the subject. I said Fuck dad it's not like we went without you, cuz we didn't go either. So he calmed down.
Today, we got up did a bit more work, then Gigantor and Captain Daddy and Kiddo all went to walmart. Got two pair of jeans for kiddo, (he has ripped out all but one pair of pants) and got him a pair of shorts, and picked up some new pillows.
Came home and we made a nice brunch, ate with dad and watched Alvin and the Chipmunks. That was so dam cute. Then we watched Calamity Jane. I had never seen it, another good movie. Then Dad and Gigantor wanted to watch Hell to Eternity. I watched parts of it, but they did. By that time it was after 6, and we had to get dinner going.
That was our busy weekend. Looks like Captain Daddy has three days off next weekend so we can go ahead and move his trailer down to that lot in the campground. Then we can start tearing crap apart at the other place. whooohooooo
Okay well I hope you all had a good weekend, and have a great Monday!!!!
Posted by Burfica at 10:06 PM 13 comments
Friday, April 04, 2008
The List of Shit!!!
I love that kitty picture!!!!
What is the list of shit you may ask. Well it's the list my husband is on. Yup, he's on my shit list.
You all know I love my husband, to a fault I might add. But like any boneheaded man, he can be a complete irritating idiot. Now I have no intentions of getting rid of him. Stabbing him with a fork repeatedly maybe, but not getting rid of him. (besides after 15 years I figure it causes him more pain if I keep him around)
Now he's not on my list for the three irritating things he has done for 15 years and I have yelled at him about almost every day. Like putting his baseball caps on the back of the couch, or his belt on the coffee table or his socks on the kitchen table. No...I've just resigned myself to keep yelling about that.
He's not on it for not doing what's asked of him, until I have to blow a fricken gasket and my head spins around, and then he does it.
He's not even on my list, for me giving him two dates a month in advance to get off early to go to a couple things we had to, and him never telling his effing boss and not getting the time off. No...he's close to being on the list for that, but really he isn't.
Why my husband is on my list and why he is a HOT STEAMING BOWL OF FUCK!!!
Is because after I woke him up last night. (if you all know what I mean) and I was most accommodating I might add. Well then he gets up this morning, and fills the entire house full of yummie breakfast smells. And he makes chorizo and egg burrito's. And me and the kid were like OooO yumm as we were waking up. Then get what the Fucktard did??? He took every last one with him to give the guys out at work. He didn't even make sure we had a burrito or even a scrap of egg to eat. And the house smelled all good.
So....I call the King of Dorkasses on the cell phone to yell at him about it. To tell him how much it upset me. Did he appoligize, did he grovel, did he rush out and get us some breakfast, did he show remorse. Hell to the fuck no!!!! He fucking laughed. He laughed and laughed.
He is sooooo very much a dead man when I see him again. (not dead as in can't breath anymore, but probably as in he wish he couldn't breath anymore)
Anyhow, I'm off to get my nails done.
Have a good Friday everyone!!!!
Posted by Burfica at 9:29 AM 18 comments
Thursday, April 03, 2008
Thursday is nothing day
I got nothing today, not a dam thing.
I might have outdone myself with the cuss o meter. hahahahaha
Should I feel ashamed that I scored higher than all the rest ya'll??? Well I don't. hahahahaha
I love that pic. Hope I don't need saved by CPR cat.
I called the two places in town that will take Captain Daddy's travel trailer. The one he wants. Well I drove by there on Friday and the park was EMPTY. So...I went by yesterday to get an application and it was fricken FULL!!!! They have to spaces left. I snatched up an application. Gonna have Gigantor take captain daddy to go get the "police dept, criminal record print out" That the park needs. God I hope they don't rent them out before we can turn in the application today. ahhhhhhhhhhhh
It's cuz it's a fricken tourist town, and people come here in droves to work the lake for the season. If we can't get him in somewhere, I don't know what to do, cuz the season doesn't end till October. I guess we could put him on waiting list. And hope that someone up and leaves soon.
Well I read most blogs already and I'm off to finish reading.
I've been on that website Twitter. I love it, but I only have 4 friends whaaaaaaaaa Nobody loves me. hahahaha You all should join and update.
Okay, enough of me having nothing, I'm off to drink more coffee and work on that application.
Have a good Thursday all!!!
Posted by Burfica at 9:06 AM 8 comments
Tuesday, April 01, 2008
The Fuck you say!!!!!
Holy fuck I'm a cusser!!! Did you guys realize that??? I had no clue!!!
I saw this on another blog. The main page says the average percentage of cussing on a page is 8%. That is average. Now look at what I am.
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Okay on a side note. I went to the doctor tonight.
I had my annual scheduled. Luckily they didn't have to do that icky pap smear thing. I'm good for one more year.
But my blood pressure was through the roof. 185 over 105. Now I take medication for my blood pressure, but that's what it's been since Feb. Gigantor and the doc think it's because I've been in so much pain from my knees.
Her and I discussed taking pain meds alot. I'm so scared to take them because of all the crap with my mom. She got hooked she would get them from two or three docs and pharmacy's she over did them. That and the smoking helped lead to her death.
I know that I could get hooked easy. I almost did after both of my surgeries. So...I cried to the doc for a while said I didn't want to do that, I could not put my family through the hell I went through with mom.
She prescribed me a non narcotic one--Tramadol. She said she has seen me in pain so much that it's time to see how my body reacts out of pain, so we have to aggressively address the pain issue, so I can become more mobile and lose some weight.
Anyhow that was the just of my appointment.
Wish me luck tomorrow Captain Daddy will be here, and I need to talk to him about the two trailer parks to move his travel trailer too, so we can go forward with the move. I'm hoping for this one that has an indoor pool open all year, so we can go use it too. Maybe I could do some of my water aerobics stuff.
We will see which one he wants me to pick an application up from though.
Have a great Wednesday everyone. And tell me what you got on the cuss o meter.
Posted by Burfica at 10:41 PM 19 comments
Nacho's from hell and Questions from Miss Ann

Just wanted to show you what Gigantor got me for lunch last Friday. Aren't those just nacho's from hell. The container was like big as your head. I couldn't even put a dent in them. hahahaha
Okay I got asked some questions by Miss Ann
So...I'm gonna put them down here and the answers. She says ONE thing in alot of the questions and I don't know if I could answer them with one thing. So...we will see how it goes. Here goes.
She asked
1. If you could give ONE piece of advice to the next generation, and KNOW that it would be followed faithfully, what would it be?
My one piece of advice is to watch the mistakes of those before you, acknowledge them and try everything within your power not to make the same mistakes. Weather it be in government and how things were messed up. In organized religion, how they belittle others, and are more of a business than a true faith or religion. Or even just with your parents. If you can recognize their mistakes and make a point not to make the same one's, then hopefully the next generation will turn out better than the last. To many people don't take accountability or learn from mistakes. It's all someone else's doing or problem not theirs. So...if everyone in the next generation, watched and listened and learned and tried not to repeat, then the world would be a much better place.
2. What is the scariest dream you've ever had?
I have lots of dreams, and most of them very vivid. I have had my share of nightmares. This person leaving, that person dying, this person hurt, inlaws getting custody of my kids. ahhhhhhh
But in all honesty I do have one dream that was the scariest thing to me, so scary I woke up couldn't move from the fear and was praying as hard as I could.
I had a dream about pure, raw EVIL. It's very hard to explain, but a guy/person/being that was just the pure essence of EVIL was chasing me. My family kept trying to get me to run to them, and I wouldn't, I didn't want it following me to my loved one's. I would run, I would make it chase me, I would lose them forever if it just saved them from the fear and horror of this thing. But my family feeling as desperate to protect me as I was them, they chased me down. And the EVIL went after them. Because it knew it would hurt me the worst. It caught my son, and was going to torture him in front of me. Torture him till it turned him EVIL or until he died. I struggled and struggled to free my son. My husband helped. My husband fell in death to this thing, begging me to get our son out. I woke up with a scream on my lips when this thing was holding each of us by the throat trying to tear our hearts out.
As soon as I woke up, I couldn't move, my heart was beating so fast, I was crying, and I was scared for my son. The only prayer I could think of was. I wash my son in the blood of Jesus, nothing that is not from him or by him or of him may touch him. I said it over and over and got louder until I could make myself move, and I ran/runwaddled to my sons room as fast as I could, and I cried, watching him sleep. I still murmured the prayer. I went back to my room, stroking the hair on my husbands head, murmuring the prayer over him also. Then I went to all the doors and windows in the house, saying the prayer over where we lived.
I've not had a dream about EVIL since. It really is hard to explain, it was everything you fear and pray to never see or be near that was this EVIL. It was crippling.
3. Think, for a moment, of your friends and family. This is a two part question. 1) Is there ONE thing that a friend could do to you that you would consider to be unforgivable? 2) Would you consider that same thing unforgivable if a family member did it?
This one is pretty straight forward. I have forgiven tons from friends and family, so I have a couple really "unforgivable" things. If a friend cheated on my with my husband. Or if family did it. (almost happened to Alekx by a relative(we don't consider her family, there is a difference between family and relatives and family doesn't have to be related)) That is unforgivable to me.
Also if they hurt or touched my child in an inappropriate manner. You better look the fuck out, cuz I will rip off your head and shit down your neck!!!!! You WILL NOT HURT MY CHILD IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM.
yeah so a crime against my child is the biggest unforgivable thing I think.
Okay so there are my answers. Go see Miss Ann tell her how much I sucked at my answers. hahahahahaha
Have a good Tuesday everyone!!!!
Posted by Burfica at 9:30 AM 13 comments
Monday, March 31, 2008
Help I think I do need the paramedics.
God I am so exhausted I think I do need the paramedics. Dial fast kitty. hehehehe
Friday I agree'd to help a friend (the one who's dad killed himself before thanksgiving) and I watched her kids while she met with accountants and lawyers and assessors. uggghhhh Lets just say she has made her kids very needy of her. That their father or his parents can't even take them without the youngest (2) screaming bloody murder after a few minutes. I had them for a bit over two hours. Luckily they didn't scream at all, but we took the tour. We went to see Gigantor in the trash truck, and follow him around and watch him dumb dumpsters. Then I got them milkshakes. Went by Kiddo's school, the airport, the horse corrals (drove real slow looking at horses), out by the lake, out to Gigantors work, back to the airport, then finally she was done.
Friday afternoon/night my avon came in and we at least got it pulled and set up to do.
Saturday morning, Gigantor worked for a few, came home and got us, and we went up to mom's old place. Gigantor started pulling stuff out of the house, and I sat and wrote up my avon receipts and stamped books and stuff. Then I started going through the stuff. Friend from out of town called, wanted us to go over for lunch. Went and ate some lunch, Gigantor had to go back to work.
We went home till Gigantor got off, then back up to the other house. Finished going through a bunch of stuff. We then got Captain Daddy and went over to Uncle and Aunts house. My cousin and her husband were in town so we were having dinner.
The cousins/nephews up the street (gigantors parents live up the street from my aunt and uncle) were in this little park next to Uncles house and so Kiddo went over and played with them for quite a while.
We stayed after dinner and played Mexican Train. Then got home at like 11. Gosh I was tired.
Got up early on Sunday, finished all the avon and did some dishes. Then back up to mom's place. Finished cleaning out her house and going through stuff. Gigantors parent came over, loaded the last load of yardsale stuff, then went in to help Gigantor pick up some of the trash.
Here is where it got hard. I have sat outside and gone through stuff. I have NOT stepped foot in that house since my mom died. I didn't' want too, I didn't need to, I just didn't. Well they really needed me in there at the end. I had already been emotional for a good week or so, then seeing the curtains come down, I was getting more so.
So...I sucked it up and I went in the house, and I found some old stuff (things with memories) that he had forgot to bring out and was going to throw away. Then I stood there looking around, and then I bee lined out of the house. Later at home I broke down and cried pretty hard. I'm doing it now matter of fact. I grew up in that home. Every time you walk in you expected mom or the dogs on the couch and the t.v. on. I had never seen it so...empty, so very... dead I guess I would say. It was a bit more than I wanted to take or could handle.
Later Gigantors mom and sister were wondering what was wrong cuz I got so distant after I beat a trail out of the house. Gigantor goes, you don't understand, that's the first time since her mom died that she has been in that house. They then said they were so proud of me, how well I did it, cuz they didn't realize.
Anyhow, besides all that, we ran to the grocery store and storage shed, and still had to make dinner. Wow....what a busy ass weekend.
I got some questions from Miss Ann I need to answer and post on my blog. I'm gonna try to get to them this week.
I hope you all had a wonderful weekend, and have a great Monday!!!!
Posted by Burfica at 8:09 AM 19 comments
Friday, March 28, 2008
What the hell was that???

What the hell was that you may ask. That was a freight train running my ass over. hehehehe Boy after the day yesterday I feel like I landed like this duck. Right on my face.
The morning started out okay, Gigantor called wanted me to drive by and see his new truck (he's driving a new trash truck) So...oooo'd and aaaaahhh 'd over it, then teased him a bit then came home.
Checked the bank because when we did our taxes we set it up for direct deposit. We got notice that it was supposed to go into our bank on the 21st. And I started checking each day after that. No money. So...I had e-mailed the place that was supposed to put it in my bank. They sent me back a response saying I needed to call them.
I called them, and they said, we sent the money to your bank on the 19th. We have confirmation that they accepted the deposit.
FUCK!!! what did my dam bank do with my money???? Call my bank from the cell phone while I'm up waiting for kiddo (it was a half day again) And they say they have to research it. Luckily I had a lady I work with alot through the years. She researched it and said that the main office deposited it in our other account (the avon account) I said, that number doesn't even start to match this number. She's like I know weird huh. Well whatever as long as you can get my money where it needs to go. Whew, crisis number one, averted.
Gigantor calls a bit later. He was gonna get off right after noon for the day. But....he said, umm scratch that. That brand new truck blew the hydrolics. He had to clean up the spill, help get it fixed then finish his route and clean the truck. Oh well.
He comes home and I'm making out bills talking about how we forgot to set something out to thaw for dinner. We discuss it a bit, then I say well we are out of milk, so run to the store and get milk and some of those Top Sirloin steaks that are on sale. Now we don't have a butcher shop out here all our meat is pre packaged. There is one store that has a meat counter they will cut some if you don't want the pre packaged, but everything in that counter is 8 or more bucks a lb.
So..Gigantor is gone for quite a while it's already after time we would normally eat. And he calls me to tell me they had no of the pre packages steaks onsale so he was trying to see if they had some in back. He comes home with two huge packages. Thank god that I sell avon to a couple ladies in that meat department. They gave him steaks from behind the counter for the sale price, and these dam things were HUGEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!
So..we get the stuff for dinner going and he goes out to start the grill. Ummmm no propane. CRAP!!!! He grabs the tanks and runs out. Most places that will re fill the tanks stop doing it at about 6 at night, it was well after that. After a good half hour or so he found a place and got them filled. We finally didn't eat till 8:30 we usually eat at 6 hahahaha
I climb into bed, and Gigantor comes in to get the dogs to go out and go potty one more time. We are all talking sweet to Foxy the rat dog, "lets go potty baby, come on lets go potty" She does this cower thing when she doesn't want to go. We don't pick her up when she does that cuz she will cower so bad she will piddle. So she is laying on her back wagging her tail doing the "look I'm cute" thing. When all of a sudden there is a fricken fountain and she pisses all over the bed. One of my pillows and the sheet covering the comforter. Gigantor picks her up ready to squeeze her till she pops and he throws her outside, while I am yanking the sheet and pillow case off in hopes I can get them off before it soaks into anything underneath. So...then we are all tired and semi making the dam bed. grrrr
Gigantor sets his alarm for 4:30 in the morning. That way he can get into work and get out on the road by 6. Well dork-o-matic shut his alarm off after it went off this morning, and went back to bed. My alarm went of (for a bit after 6) and I had to beat his ass out of bed. He was so upset. I think this only makes twice he's ever been late for work. But he had planned on doing a few things this morning before leaving. Yeah yeah that didn't happen.
Looks like it's shaping up to be a happening weekend. HAHAHAHAHA
Hope you all had a better Thursday and Hope you have a great Friday!!!
Keep your heads up so you don't land on your face like that duck. hahahaha
Posted by Burfica at 8:17 AM 14 comments
Thursday, March 27, 2008
Some Days Old People Suck!!!

No offense Coffeypot. hahahahaa *ducks lamp thrown at head*
Hey has anyone else been stuck in the couch like this puppy before, or is it just me??
Okay on to the sucky old people.
Attention you old cranky fuck that lives down the street. I understand you are so old and cranky that the only entertainment you get is to watch what goes on in the neighborhood then call the city or police and complain about it. I realize the the city has nothing better to do than hear about you complain about cars going to fast, then to slow, with lights on, without, with kids in them, with women driving. What the fuck ever.
But for the love of all that is holy, GET YOUR FUCKING HAND OUT OF YOUR PANTS!!! I hate driving by and seeing your hand down the front of your pants. I realize you are old and crusty and your probably worried it's gonna fall off. So use duct tape like a normal human. I don't need to see you holding onto it for dear life.
To the old and dirt crossing guard lady. I realize that aliens came and sucked your brains out when you were a little girl. I also realize that you have a hard time walking and majorly waddle side to side, so you take fucking forever. I even realize and accept that you like to waddle out and stop traffic, when the children are still over half a block away, and taking their sweet dam time to get there. I try to sit patiently for that. But for fuck sake STOP STARING AT THE PEOPLE IN THE CARS FOR A GOOD TWO MINUTES AFTER THE KIDS HAVE CROSSED. PUT THAT DAM SIGN DOWN AND WADDLE YOUR ASS OUT OF THE CROSSWALK SO WE CAN FUCKING GOOOOOOOO. If you keep it up, just staring at all us cars with no kids around, and keeping us all stopped for a couple minutes. I'm gonna fucking snap and get out of my car and beat you to within an inch of your life with the dam stop sign then shove it where the sun don't shine and watch to see if you can waddle then!!!!!
Finally for today, to my mother in law. I realize you do guilt trips all the dam time, and I'm gonna talk about some. But for the love of God why do you do guilt trips so much that you even guilt yourself into stupid shit???
I know you wanted us to go out with the "family" for easter. A tradition since Gigantor was little, but never once have we been invited too, till now. But I told you that we were having other family over, so we were staying here. Also that we had our own traditions for the past 15 years, since we had never been invited. And frankly I didn't want to drive 2 or more fucking hours to go have an egg hunt and picnic and drive home. Not on a Sunday, not with his family and not with gas prices. And Easter was last weekend, so quit fucking pissing and moaning about us not going, just shut up!!!
Also...I did not feel bad when you told me how you all dyed eggs and you made each of the kids and grandkids a special egg. There was no reason to go "Oh oh oh but I made you all one too, you have to come over and get it." And bug us till we do come over only to find you just freshly boiled three eggs and wrote each of our names on them with a magic marker. You did not have to guilt yourself bad enough to do that really stupid gesture. We are not so fickle that we care if we didn't get an egg. fuck!!!
And lastly dear mother in law. I do know that Gigantors sister is going to be in town this weekend. I also know that we get to see her about 5 or 6 times a year. And yes I know your sick way of wanting to force all the family together, that doesn't really want to be together. That's why I told you about me having family coming in town and we were doing dinner at my Uncles on Saturday, before you had a chance to spring a dinner on us. You seemed to accept this, even though you were disappointed.
But to have you call Gigantor back when he was home and give him the guilt trip of his life about how he should go to dinner and see his sister, and if he absolutely can't how we need to not work on the house to get moved but we need to go up and spend the day with them and you. Next time you try to guilt trip him after I have told you how something is. I'm not gonna be nice. So...STOP IT!!!!!
Okay I think I am done bashing old people for today.
Have a good Thursday everyone!!!!
Posted by Burfica at 8:11 AM 17 comments
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
I love the smell of onion in the morning.

I can't stop laughing thinking that I have probably owned that cat at one time. hahahahha
Woke up this morning and the kitchen smelled like onions. I don't mind onions, in fact I love them, but first thing in the morning when you would rather smell coffee, and it's onions. I put the potato salad that was left over, from a big bowl into a smaller bowl, and told hubby to rinse the bowl under hot water. I was putting away dinner last night. I hear water running, assumed he did it. Yeah yeah I know that was my fault for not checking. So... the bowl was stacked with some other stuff in it and I found out it hadn't been rinsed when I went on the search of where the onion smell was coming from.
On to movies. We watched an awesome movie last night. We had got kiddo for easter that Mr. Magoriums Wonder Emporium. Man that was a pretty dam good movie. I'm glad we got it for him.
Captain Daddy dropped down and I gave it to him to watch and he brought me a couple movies he had bought for us. (on our request of course) He has this big magazine that has some old movies and some that aren't as common, and he had me order him some on the internet, so got me a couple too. We got Corpse Bride. I like this one just like the Nightmare Before Christmas one. And we got Snakes on a Plane. I dunno we sorta liked that one for a just silly, non reality based, fun movie.
Well I'm off to do Avon stuffs.
Have a good Wed everyone!!!
Posted by Burfica at 11:46 AM 13 comments
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Who needs a title anyway??
Oh my gosh this picture cracks me up every time. Probably because I've seen plenty of people and animals "stuck in yoga"
Not much new today. Kiddo started back at Taekwondo. The Master was waiting for a building to be completed, they told him two months. It's a year later. grrrrr So... a few days ago Kiddo started upping his exercises. And he got pretty sore. His abs, and arms. Well he went and worked out hard hard and harder last night. He came home going OoOOoOoO my stomach, my arms my legs, I'm so sore, I just want a shower and bed. And that's pretty much what happened. This morning he bent over for something and started laughing cuz his stomach was so sore he had to put his hand on the couch to get up.
Today and Thursday are half days. Parent teacher confrences. So we need to try and make it that.
Kiddo said his reading teacher (who was the only one giving homework) said he would give no homework the last nine weeks since it's mostly testing. In one sense I think that's cool. In another sense I think the teacher has major spring fever too. hehehehehe
Okay yesterday I had coffee and pound cake for breakfast. This morning, coffee and big bowl of potato salad. Nothing like onion breath in the morning.
We are in the weird weather stage. It's still in it's 30's in the morning so we turn the heater on and heater in the car on. Then by noon heater is off and door is open. By afternoon early evening. Ceiling fans on, door and windows open, a/c in the car on. Yup it's at that, "can't make up it's mind" stage.
All to soon it will be up in the 100's though. I'll be camping my ass out in the house most the time. hehehehehe
You all still eating leftovers??? We probably will eat them a couple more days then they should be done for. hehehe Not quite like thanksgiving or christmas where you eat leftovers for like a week.
Okay I have to go pee, so I'm outa here.
Don't get stuck in yoga and have a great Tuesday all!!!!
Posted by Burfica at 8:38 AM 15 comments
Monday, March 24, 2008
The Monday after.

How did easter go for everyone??? It was a wonderful and very happy day here.
Gigantor got up at about 5 and hid eggs and came back to bed. Kiddo got up and hung out in our room while we got dressed and up. He did his two egg hunts (we do real eggs inside and plastic eggs outside) He got two movies for easter Bee Movie and Mr. Magoriums Wonder Emporium. We only got to one so far. We had breakfast and watched Bee Movie. I was really enjoying it, and then I just up and fell asleep. hahahahaha
We got out of the couch about 11, and I whiped up a potato salad, made poofoo. Peeled eggs and made deviled eggs, then prepped the ham and asparagus, and got the rolls rolled out. Then we did NOTHING till we put the ham in and when it came out put the rolls and asparagus in.
Captain Daddy came down, as did the Aunt and Uncle. They brought broccoli salad. Now the first time my uncle made broccoli salad for us, it was broccoli, celery, red grapes, raisins and some sunflower seeds with a bit of miracle whip and bit of whip cream. I asked for the recipe he says well it doesn't really have one, cuz it's whatever you have. This time it was broccoli, bit of red onion, dried cranberries, raisins, and cashews, with the Miracle whip and whip cream. It taste so dam good however you make it. hehehehe
We ate and ate, and joked and talked, and everything went wonderfully. Like the uncle said, it was an amazing dinner, cuz everything went together nicely and nothing over powered any dish.
Later we had desert and we sat and visited till 8 o'clock (dinner was at 4)
We were so tuckered out that kiddo went right to sleep and Gigantor and I were in bed before 11. That is very unusual for us.
None of us wanted to get up this morning. Back to school after a week off. I hate it when he has to go back. I love having him around. Taking him to friends or having them over. I just like being with my kid. hehehehe
Okay I'm off to drink coffee and eat a big hunk of pound cake.
Have a great Monday everyone!!!!!
Posted by Burfica at 8:06 AM 18 comments
Saturday, March 22, 2008
HAPPY EASTER TO ALL!!!!
I just want to wish you all a very happy and blessed and safe and fun Easter!!!!
I thought this pic was so cute. I actually had chickens that had feathers like that (not colored the shape) We named one Tina, for Tina turner.
We just finished cleaning all of the house except mopping. I did most of the prep work for dinner tomorrow. We just have a couple more things and to dye eggs. I will probably dye eggs for as long as my son is still in this house. I love to do that. I was hoping he wouldn't want to do any egg hunts this year. I was hoping he had outgrown them. But he decided he still wanted to. So...of course I will. He's my baby and all to soon he won't want to anymore.
I'm bummed that spring break is almost over. Next week they have two half days for parent teacher confrences. But then they don't have another day off till school is out. I find that sorta hard on the kids and parents. Every month they have one or two days of school off, sometimes more. Then the end of March they don't till the end of May.
We are working hard, and getting things done still to head for the big move. I so want to be in there before the summer. I would be so dang happy.
Well I'm completely entertained at the husband chasing the rat dog with the vacuum. She is acting so funny and when he stops she attacks him.
What are you all having for easter dinner.
Our menu is
Glazed ham
potato salad
poofoo
deviled eggs
crescents
Parmesans Roasted Asparagus
Aunt and Uncle are bringing Broccoli Salad
And for desert, Captain Daddy wanted pound cake and we have a cheese cake sampler. It has Double dutch chocolate cheesecake, Tuxedo cheesecake, White chocolate and raspberry cheesecake, and Strawberry Swirl cheese cake. Three pieces of each.
Okay I am gonna go, and have fun with the family some more.
I just really wanted to wish you all a wonderful Easter, and time with your loved ones. Remember to hug someone you love.
Have a wonderful Weekend All!!!
Posted by Burfica at 4:39 PM 17 comments
Thursday, March 20, 2008
Boys are Weird

Here is another peep funny since it's close to easter. I find this one highly amusing. hehehehe
As my title said, boys are weird. Anyone that has a boy has proof of that. My son had a couple of boys over to play yesterday. His cousin Tidey (as in the bowl not being clean) came over about noon. Tidey is about 4 months older than Kiddo. They were playing with the dragon mega block thingies. He has a fort and a ghost ship, plenty of dragons and guys. Then Skinny K came over about 2.
They are playing on the floor of the living room which is behind me. This is what I hear.
Dude hand me that flame thing it can be a flame thrower.
You can't have a flame thrower it's the middle ages they weren't invented yet.
Okay fine then hand me the sack of Napalm.
Sure here ya go.
Other such gems I heard were. Dragons flying attacking the ghost ship, ghosts attacking back and floating over the water, monsters eating the helpless turning them into more ghosts, Ogres going on killing rampages. All this action. Skinny K saying "the ghost ship runs up on a reef and starts to sink" at which Tidey and Kiddo say. DUDE THAT IS SO UNREAL, WE ARE TRYING TO KEEP IT REALITY BASED HERE.
And the gem of all gems. The one that made me fall out of my chair laughing.
They were doing screams of horror and death, and I say. God boys you all scream like a bunch of little girls. (we as parents have a right to tease them when they get squeaky voiced. Skinny K is very much so, Kiddo every once in a while, and Tidey not yet) And they laugh, then they keep doing it. So..yeah I was teasing them about sounding girlie. To which Kiddo goes MOMMMMMMMM WE CAN'T HELP IT IT'S THE PUBERTY!!!!!!
They were so funny and so cute, and I enjoyed the tar out of them, but by 9 this morning I was glad I was finally down to one little stinker again.
Hope you all have a reality based, Napalm sacked Puberty loving Thursday!!!!!
Posted by Burfica at 9:17 AM 20 comments
Wednesday, March 19, 2008
Update
Just thought I would give you all a little update.
I went into pogo, and I had a message. I had a message from the person I had the falling out with.
First of all let me state that I waited an entire week before posting my rant, to see if we could patch things up. But I was told by other people that she had blocked me on pogo and on msn. I also went to her blog and found I was deleted. Sounds pretty much final to me. So...after an entire week of me being the last one to say something and reach out the hand of friendship and caring, I heard nothing so I posted my rant.
Here is the message I got on pogo mail this morning.
was worried about you so stopped in to check on your blog and see if you were ok...then read a REALLY rude post about me...I NEVER mentioned anything about you on my blog because I didn't want to hurt you...so guess it shows what a &=@@& you are and I am glad I will NEVER hear from you again...
if you read this don't bother to reply...because I won't read it...will delete it like the TRASH you are.
That was copy and pasted so it's word for word.
Just got a chuckle out of it, so I am letting you all see it.
Apparently I'm trash, so look out if ya read me, you might get dirty.
More later. If you want a real funny look at the post about the Peep Show I have below this.
Posted by Burfica at 9:15 AM 28 comments
Tuesday, March 18, 2008
The Aftermath.

Doesn't this funny just make you hork water out your nose??? It's so wrong and so funny at the same time.
I did my little rant, I feel much better. I thank you all for your support kind words, and e-mails. I lubs ya all!!!! Here have a peep. h ahahahahahhaa
I think I'm going loony from the dog farting so much behind me. It's so dam loud that I laugh uncontrollably every time he does it. hahahahaha
I'm waiting on Gigantor to come home, I need to go mail my shit off, and go to the bank. (not litteraly mail shit) I'm finally mailing out Cookie Monsters Christmas box. hahahah I know I suck peeps. muuuuaaaaahhahahahahahahahha
Please god save me, I think all the fumes from the exterminator earlier are making me more loopy than usual.
Okay I have to pee, so I'm gonna go.
Thank you again all my dear blogger buddies.
loves ya all lots
Have a good rest of the Tuesday!!!!!
Posted by Burfica at 2:43 PM 10 comments
Monday, March 17, 2008
Okay here is the vent/rant
You all don't have to read this, it is more for me to feel better, so be warned.
As I said I was going to be deleting someone off, and I did.
Let me give some back ground. I met this person about 2 years ago in the game site pogo. We seemed to hit it off. We exchanged msn messenger and talked often, she even started blogging. Now nobody is without problems, we all have them, hell I have lots of them. I thought we were there for each other and talked to each other about everything.
A few things bugged me though, I tried to over look them but they bugged me.
1. She would constantly complain about her children. Once or twice is okay, even funny, but it was constant. Wanting them to go back to school and leave her alone, wanting to strangle them, just wanting them to not bug her at all. I tried to blow it off, but she would put it on her blog, and on her MSN bar. Then she would try to justify it about how much she loved them. It was just to much, it said volumes about her (my uncle always said when people say nasty things it says more about them then who they are talking about.) In most cases that is true.
2. She did the same thing about her husband, always saying she was gonna kill him and hide the body, again once or twice funny, every single day, not so much.
3. We would be in game rooms chatting and I would be saying the same things as the rest of the room (pertaining to our progress in the room) And she would always call me a bragger. That used to tick me off, cuz my mother taught us that was a pretty bad thing to be. I was only doing what everyone including her was, and I thought we were all teasing. When I would tell her such, she would tell me I was bragging more than anyone. Whatever, I stopped talking in the rooms.
4. One time I told her something that bugged me about what a couple people did in the games we played. Her response was that I was more competitive than any man she met (now she told me this when I had just lost multiple games for her to get a badge, lost on purpose) Then she goes, that's one of your biggest faults, but I love ya anyway.
5. This was the biggest one. I would message her and it would take sometimes 5 or 10 minutes for her to answer. She would say sorry she was off doing this or that, well no biggie, we all have lives outside of the computer. But if I took more than 10 seconds or so to answer, I would get a "fine you want to be alone I'll leave you alone" and she would sign out of messenger.
Well last week was the last straw I guess.
Her and I had talked for a couple hours the night before, laughing and joking and having a good time with a bunch of other people in a game room.
The next morning, I signed on to MSN saw her online and I say Morning
She says NO it's NOT but whatever
(now she's three hours ahead of me, so I hurried and did the counting, nope still 11 there) I say "oh I thought it was only 11 there"
She says, "Whatever, I meant it wasn't a good morning." (so in the joking way we usually do) I say "OH well I said morning, not that it was good hahahaha"
She says, "LISTEN it isn't a good day, I'm bitchy!! SORRY"
so before I step into it any further (because sometimes when she has had a bad day and I try to help she tells me to butt out) I say "Would you rather be left alone then hun?" (I thought that was nice, asking first, my next words were gonna be to ask her if I could help and what was wrong.) She then says. "Listen!! I said Sorry, but do WHATEVER you want." and she signed out of msn as soon as she sent that message.
My jaw dropped, I was sorta ticked off she treated me that way. First of all how could I tell how bad a day she was having through a fricken messenger if she wasn't talking, and 2nd how dare you treat a friend that way, when they were being nice. And thinking of all the other times she had just signed out on me, and thinking of how rude that was. I guess I had had enough.
I messaged her in the pogo mail. I had said. That was dam rude. I understand your having a bad day, but it's not my fault, and I didn't realize how bad, but that is rude behavior to not give me a chance to say anything. I also said, how I didn't appreciate being treated that way, that I wouldn't put up with it from other people, so I wouldn't put up with it from her who is supposed to be my friend, and that I did NOT deserve to be treated that way. I also said that I didn't' say anything wrong, I was trying to be nice asking her something so I wasn't going to apologize for trying to be nice.
I get a message back, that was short and sweet.
It said, You can act all perfect if you want, I know better, cuz you ARE NOT PERFECT. and that she had had the past 24 hours from hell (funny we were laughing and joking 8 hours previous) and that I didn't even ask her if she was okay (first I didn't know things were wrong, I got shut out to fast and how can I ask someone that signs out and won't give me the chance) Then she said that since I was so perfect and couldn't be a friend to check on her, she was deleting me out of everything, blog, messenger, game site, e-mail, everything, and that I would never hear from her again.
I tried sending her a couple other messages, and it just got worse and worse from her. Scary worse. Can anyone say Bi-Polar and needs major meds??? Good god.
I'm not perfect, I have never tried to be, hell I tell people up front I have lots of faults. But I also don't point out other peoples faults to their face like she was constantly doing to me. Even some that I didn't think I had, and neither does anyone else, cuz I asked.
I totally hate that when someone says something she doesn't like, that she deletes them. And she also says horrid thing to them, on their blogs alot. I know for a fact that she has done it to Special K and to Miranda and Susan, and to Dorky Dad who I used to read, and she told me she did it to a few others.
I guess what upsets me most, is that I invested two years in what I thought was a "real" friendship that could surpass time and trials, and the first thing I don't bow at her feet and agree with her with, she deletes me out of everything. I'm most upset that I invested time in something that wasn't a true friendship.
Anyhow that is my rant, non of you had to stick with it. A lot of you know I'm a fierce loving friend, and will stick up for ya through tons of stuff. I just hope I get alot of that respect back, but let me tell ya, I'm gonna be on the look out for Bi-Polar maniacs not taking meds. hahahaha
Have a good Tuesday all!!! We are on spring break so having fun so far.
Posted by Burfica at 9:19 PM 22 comments
Sunday, March 16, 2008
Help I need HELP
Okay I have a challenge for you all, or maybe even a question and plead for help. Basically if I have photo shop I don't know how to use it.
But Gigantor and the guys at work want to make some picture, and have asked me if I could, and I have no clue how to. I told them that maybe I would ask all you geniuses see if any of you could figure it out.
Then maybe you all could e-mail it to me and I can print it out.
Anyhow. They are after getting this co worker back, for some horrid things he does, and his nick name is Pooh.
They want to take a picture of a monkey or chimp or something with a pooh bear in his hand, and then put the caption FLINGING POOH on it, and put it on his truck. hahahahaha
If any of you can figure out how to do that through photo shop, could ya hook a sister up???
I'll forever be in your blogger debt. hahaha
Have a good Sunday all, we are watching t.v. and having corned beef and cabbage with Captain Daddy.
Posted by Burfica at 5:08 PM 13 comments
Friday, March 14, 2008
Welcome to the Crazy House
Oh my god! OH MY GOD!!!!!! What a crazy couple days. fuck me.
Okay first of all, we cut Kiddo's hair like I said. Well...about 4 in the morning, the dogs go ape shit, big time ape shit!!! I'm like FUCK SOMEONES TRYING TO BREAK IN. They have only done that two other times. EVER once there was a fight across the street, very violent and we had to call cops, and another time the dog next door was choking to death and Gigantor saved the day.
Anyhow, Gigantor jumps up and was still half asleep, so he throws the door open (he should have held Busters collar) Well Buster ran out, right past the cop on the porch, to the cop at the gate. Gate cop pulled out his tazer and made a sound like OOoooh OooOOh OoOOh But then Buster realized he was okay. Mr. Door cop and Gate cop had to ask us if we were okay. Gigantor said yes, Door cop had to come in and check on me and peek in at Kiddo. We asked what was going on. They said that someone called 911 and screamed our address in the phone and then hung up. They told us the number that called and we had never heard of it.
Well if any of you remember that happened to me about 3 to 4 weeks ago, during the day.
Once maybe a mistake or prank. Twice was starting to worry me. Like what if someone was watching us, and they called them out to guage police response time, so they knew how much time they had to do something bad to us. Yeah yeah I know I'm a bit paranoid. Better safe than sorry. Well I wouldn't let Kiddo go outside unless I was with him. And I have had the pistol out all day.
Well I called up the police department this morning and said I wanted to talk to one of the officers from the call, cuz I wanted to file a report. Ms. Dispatch is real nice, I got ahold of the one we have known for 7 or 8 years. She's real good too.
Well she ended up calling me back, said she was getting all the information off the computers to give to the officer. And she decided to call the number back, since nobody reported if they did that or not. So...she called the number and a lady answered, and she said, Yeah did you call 911 on Thursday morning. The lady said yes, I needed help. Ms. Dispatcher asked why she hung up, and she couldn't give her a good answer. Then Ms. Dispatcher said, well what address did you give. The lady repeated my address. Ms. Dispatcher says, lady that's not your address. And the lady HAD TO WALK OUTSIDE AND LOOK AT THE FUCKING NUMBER ON HER HOUSE!!!! Sweet crispy jeebus what a dumb ass!!!!
So...Ms. Dispatcher questioned her some more, and found out they were the ones that called the other time too. So...no need to be paranoid. Ms. Dispatcher put a notation down about that numbers, said we "shouldn't" have any more problems, but we will see.
Few more quick things then I'm gonna run so this isn't so long.
Kiddo didn't keep the crazy hair, he was to self conscious so I cut it off first thing in the morning, but he did wear the crazy clothes.
We went and did some shopping for easter tonight, cuz I totally fricken forgot. We have to go help mom in law with a yard sale tomorrow, and do some shopping and get my avon done and Gigantor has to work. aaaaahhhhh
And I'm gearing up for a rant or whatever on here. I will be deleting out a blog link, because someone did some crazy shit, and was a crazy person, they need to be on meds, seriously. And after 2 years of friendship, when I told her I didn't appreciate her being rude one particular time (yes I was much more colorful though) She got mad and said she would delete me from everything and I would never hear from her again. Well I've checked and she sure as hell did. So means she wasn't a real friend to start with, and I don't need people like that in my life.
A few of you have been on the receiving end of her wrath and been deleted also, cuz something triggered her brain wrong. so I'm sure you all will know who it is.
Anyhow I might write about it to make myself feel better.
Okay I'm outa here, to pour myself into bed, and to get up early. Have a wonderful Weekend everyone!!!!!
Posted by Burfica at 9:40 PM 26 comments
Wednesday, March 12, 2008
Stupid Blogger

Stupid dam blogger. I tried to load a picture of what we did to Kiddo's hair but it wouldn't let me.
Apparently it's spirit week at school. And Monday was aluminum foil day, he forgot, but one kid was wrapped in it and passing it out so kiddo got some.
Tuesday was pairs day, or duo day. He and none of his friends could thing of anything.
Today was Decades day. I kept telling him it meant any era. We pinned a bunch of Gigantor's furs to his hoodie, and I was gonna use my brown gel liner to give him thick eyebrows, let him go as a caveman. He chickened out this morning, telling me he was worried it was just like Hippie day or something.
So we went to school, and I'll admit there were tons of hippies. But he said there was romans, and cleopatra and stuff, so he could have gone as that. Oh well...next year.
Tomorrow is supposed to be Crazy Day, he said people dressed up all crazy. So...we first made him put on shorts. Then a pair of pants he ripped out in the crotch. We cut off the right leg at the knee then cut it up in strips. Then he put on a camo shirt and we rolled up the left arm. Then put a fuschia tie on him. Then his hair got a bit long (remember I shave it) and I shaved a stripe down the middle front to back and one side to side. so he has four patches. hahahahaha
He was a bit worried that he would get teased extra bad. I said, kiddo it's supposed to be crazy, we can cut the hair and you can just dress up if you want. Up to you. He said no he will try it.
I will reassure him tomorrow he can call me if anything bad happens and I will go get him. I think it will be good though. Show he has school spirit, might even get some people to look at him in a different light. Oh well, wish him luck.
Friday is supposed to be Hawaiian shirt day. Luckily my dad gave him a couple silky like shirts last year, short sleeve. One is brown and red, and the other has blue and yellow big flower/palms on it. so we have the shirt thing covered. hahahaha
Well...I talked to Captain Daddy about his taxes. I figured them out. He didn't have enough with held through the year, so he got very little back. He was mad yesterday but had me explain it again today and he was better.
Now I just have to talk to him about moving off that lot we are trying to move onto. uggghhh Gonna have to call campground and trailer parks and get quotes and see if I can talk to him about doing it soon.
Wish me luck again.
Wish kiddo luck and fun.
Have a good Thursday everyone!!!!
Posted by Burfica at 10:50 PM 14 comments
